-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry -Loss of appetite -Binge eating for comfort -Calling your ex several times a day -Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism) -Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called -Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call -Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you -Feeling massively depressed -Feeling urges to spy on them -Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said -Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them …and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C...defensiveness...arguments...and then it gets really nasty. Do you make these mistakes with your ex? -We try to convince them we are the love of their life -We will apologize profusely for everything -Promise to change for good this time -Try to get them to see that it wasn't really our fault -Even beg with them to take us back …and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become. Please know…this is not your fault! You weren't taught this in school. You probably weren't taught this by your parents…and there is no "get your ex back" night school... Yeah? And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? ..Cars?...Money?...Clothes?...ALGEBRA? So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back? Crazy huh? And now as you will soon see...all that has changed.
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